My friend Sean's really got me down today, he sent me a text this morning directly telling me that he wants to "leave and forget our friendship", at first I thought he was joking around and he had something funny to say afterwards, but he continued this on with how he doesn't care if I won't allow him to or not, and how it was easier when he never knew anyone around this area as he has only been here for a few years. From then I realised this was pretty serious, I took the smart idea of not replying to him as I'd let my emotions get the better of him. He considered me as a best friend, but how he can say something like that, I have no clue. He followed that up with "sorry, love you", but truly I think that even if you love someone as a friend, there's no way in fuck that you'd be able to simply cut the person off like that. Of course I was upset, but mainly I felt anger and just wanted to beat the shit out of something, sadly by then I was already on my way to college, which I guess is quite likely because if not then I would have made my way back home. I haven't replied to Sean since, but since the morning texts he has apologised and told me that me didn't mean any of it. I'm going to really struggle with trusting him now, he did the exact same thing to his ex best friend simply because she's dating a guy he didn't like. Sean has now told me that he's pretending to be friends with her, but truly doesn't care one bit about her. If he can say that about her after knowing her for many years and being best friends with her for many years, how the fuck is there any chance whatsoever that he's not going to do the exact same thing?!
Sean and my dad talk a reasonable amount and see each other as friends too, they were talking earlier on the phone simply for my dad to congratulate him on passing his test [today], but the topic of problems with Sean and me came up and now my dad's trying to get involved which I don't appreciate at all. Dad mentioned something about it somehow relating to my best friend Lean and another friend of mine called Peacock, one that I haven't talked to for a while as he's back with an ex that all of his friends hate, which is a very reasonable thing. Anyway, I haven't talked to him in a very long while as his girlfriend tends to kick off at stupid things, for example me even saying hello to Peacock would make her have a huge go at Adam, so I just haven't bothered, to save arguments from them.
I don't know how I feel about my situation about Sean, and I don't know how I should feel either. I would phone Alex as just talking at him about situations make me feel better, but unfortunately for me, he is at a gig tonight so wouldn't be able to pick up for a good while, and even then he would be with friends and even possibly high because he's a disgusting drug user.
Ehh, we all knew thing's couldn't stay on a good note for long, just hopefully things will change again soon. I cannot handle sadness, especially while I've got uni work to focus on.
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